what you want is not for her to remember what you said ... what
you want ... is for her to remember you ....
two different things .... snail mail implies thought ... it
hints of the romantic .... it shows you cared enough to go beyond
the instant gratification of email ......
(non-pinky type) girls ..... are suckers for such things ...

I prefer emails, because its faster and can type.
Snail mail.. erm.. occassionally la..
its the contents that's more important..